A Journey of Jewish Ethnicity in Israel for Interfaith Jewish indentity, Jewish Ethnicity and Israel

Star of David: Magen David                  Behold you are bethrothed to me

Two tightly knit triangles

form a profoundly strong bond.

“However, the most incredible effect of the trip has been the affect it had on Louisa, my Chinese wife Since she has got back she has not stopped talking about it, sending photos and e-mails to her friends, and reading one book after another, particularly about modern Israel and the Zionist struggle.She even took the initiative to suggest that we go to Synagogue tonight.
I hope she'll write herself, but she was having a hard time putting her thoughts into words…” Jonathan Ross


These and many more are the comments of interfaith multi generational families who participated in one of the many Israel Experiences prepared specifically for them by Rabbi Lee Diamond of Israel Celebration Tours. Rabbi Diamond is an American born Jew and a citizen of Israel. Rabbi Diamond defines himself as an educator committed to the concept that the Israel experience has the power to change lives and most especially for an interfaith family.

What is it about an Israel experience that is so impactful and indeed life changing for so many interfaith families? Is it just a tour of another country? Is it a travel experience together as a family that creates this affect? Clearly there is more!

The secret power of this experience lies in the amazing potential of Israel to serve as a stage upon which the drama of Jewish Ethnicity may best be presented. Although many today down- play Jewish ethnicity for the American Jew as at all relevant; although many Jewish leaders prefer to discuss and educate toward Jewish “Spirituality”; although many will claim that Israel has little to offer an interfaith family, the fact is that Ethnicity indeed survives as one of the most powerful drives in the Jewish soul, keeping Jews connected in more ways than the leadership of the Jewish community is willing to recognize.

The first Seder by Reuven Rubin.(note the various ethnic groups)

Today 85% of all Israelis attend a Passover Seder.

“Jewish Ethnicity” may be defined as connection to the Jewish people and the Jewish drama; Ethnicity may be related to Jewish memory; Ethnicity may be expressed even in such simple ways as love of Jewish foods or love of Jewish jokes; It may often express itself in the form of strong sensitivity to the Holocaust or to continuing forms of anti Semitism; but more than all of the above ethnicity is the source of the uncanny desire of Jews for their own personal continuity and for the Jewish continuity of their children.

The choice of a life’s partner has little affect upon this deep and almost mystical sense of belonging that so many Jews feel and express in varied ways. Often the non- Jewish partner has difficulty understanding this inner urge in their Jewish partner. How many times have we heard non Jewish partners married to Jews complain that their spouse does little or nothing “Jewshly” and yet s/he wants their next generation to be Jewish? It makes little logical sense and indeed is difficult to explain this urge, and yet there is no doubt that it exists and often burns as a bright flame.

The organized Jewish community of North America also has great difficulty relating to and understanding this urge or flame of ethnicity that burns in the souls of all Jews. So many Jewish leaders dismiss these inner feelings as irrelevant and not at all serious. How can one be in an intermarriage and still feel connected? How can one be a Jew and not identified with institutional Judaism, such as Synagogues, JCC’s or other Jewish institutions? This same leadership although often adopting an open and welcoming approach to the interfaith family fails to understand the profound power of a burning Jewish soul, of ethnicity, of connectedness that defies all institutions all definition and all logic.

However this urge, this soul flame burns brightly despite all the misunderstanding, all the criticism, and all too often the rejection.


It is the claim of Rabbi Diamond and of Israel Celebration Tours that we must not only recognize this love of “belonging” but it is the “mitzvah” (the command of our time) to fan this flame; to allow it to burn; to strengthen it and indeed to add fuel to this inextinguishable fire. Not to do so is to misread the nature of the contemporary Jew and to miss the moment and to fail the future.

Israel is about Jewish Ethnicity. Israel is about belonging. Israel is about Jewish history. Israel is about Jewish future. Israel is about connections. Israel, for the interfaith family, is about understanding and creating Jewish memory. Israel is an authentic non- threatening environment for simply releasing the Jewish soul. Israel at its very core is the natural environment to feel and express Jewish pride and “peoplehood.” Despite all claims to the contrary by so many, who miss the real soul of Israel, she welcomes all and her people open their hearts and homes to the searching, and caring visitor.

Float in the Dead Sea

Israel is about children. It is simply fun to be a Jew in Israel, even for a short visit. Be it swimming in the Med, the Dead or the Red Seas; be in kayaking on the Jordan River; be it a jeep tour in the Golan Heights, skiing on the Hermon, snorkeling in Eilat, camel riding in the Negev dessert. All of these experiences strangely enough come across to children as “it’s fun to be a Jew.” It is this feeling that often allows the child to connect as a Jew after years of not feeling comfortable.

Israel provides an amazing insight for the non- Jewish partner in a blended or duel heritage family into the soul of his/her Jewish partner and into the soul of parents and grandparents. Understanding is promoted and gaps are often closed.

While many may miss this truth, Rabbi Lee Diamond is dedicated to promoting such experiences as the command of the hour. He is convinced that more and more interfaith families need to have such an experience and that such experiences will impact them forever.

The flame must be fed and Israel has an unlimited wealth of this natural energy.

Israel’s natural energy: “Orange Jews”

Perhaps these words of a non-Jewish partners express it best::

Louisa Ross:

I love Israel, its people. I will be back!

Rabbi Diamond invites you to visit the website of Israel Celebration Tours at www.IsraelCelebrationTours.com